Dumped

How come whenever you get dumped, 2 things have to happen:

1.Friends you made while in the relationship have to choose who they want to continue to be friends with
2.If you're the dumper, you're suddenly deemed an asshole/bitch

Because first off, you can't have your friends colliding with your ex. So there could really be a battle of wits here. You really wanna make the person you're trying to convince to be your friend seriously love you, you have to prove to them that it's worth their while sticking with YOU and not your ex. Shower them with gifts and more appreciation than you would your other friends.

And secondly, if you're the dumper, you're suddenly the bad guy, because everybody goes, "How could you hurt someone that loves you that much?! You jerk!" Oddly enough, I've never dumped anyone and I still get called worse names. Daily. Odd. I don't hate any of my ex's, but I am irritated at my first (Melinda). Just some relationship questions I've always wanted the answers to, that's all.

Oh, and there's a third, and this one comes in a piece of advice. Women, don't get mad at men when they lie considering you do it every time you tell us you "love" us.

m@rk